My date thats happening today.i am so excited.?

my moms friend is telling me that i should not be online dating cause lots crazy people that can kill me and lots people that can give me stds so he says i should not have any dates unless i meet them public.i been talking to this one guy for few days.we both on plenty of fish.com.he likes me and said for me to stop asking that .i ask him all these questions and he said i should just go with it,get to know him.he said he likes his dates in red and that today he wants take me to pho vietnamese then a romantic walk then once walk done we go for coffee talk and for me to get ready for lots times spent with him.he being a gentleman.he did not mention sex at all.he does not act like a pervert like most guys on there.and he said that i should expected to be treated like a queen.he going for lunch then a bike ride then will be back home in 2 hours then he will text me .we text lots.anyone experienced this ? he just hates that since i have doubts with men from past experiences from online that i judge him too or be very untrustworthy and scared to get hurt.i told him i have get to know him and make sure he not like most pervs from online.my mom hates me being online.i have not had sex for 3 months and i havent done anything.just gone dates .some of the guys i dont even kiss haha.anyone have advice,comments ,experiences.i am 27 years old and i am pretty sure he 27.he works in a software company.he very independent.he the romantic type i can tell.

Should i tell my boyfriend?

I got really very drunk and kissed a guy back at the beginning of our 11 month relationship.. he knows this because i told him and we got through it and he trusts me again. However i got rung up the other day by my old best friend whose really close with the guy i kissed and he apparently told her we slept together and thought everyone knew which i really certainly didn't! I know i shouldn't have been that drunk in the first place so i don't drink anymore and i felt guilty enough about kissing him and now this.. I cant eat and barely sleep because i feel so guilty. Part of me says that he forgave me about it back then and technicaly this isnt a separate betrayal of trust, it happened over 10 months ago it would unnecessary to hurt him over this because i didn't know this happened until now so i wasn't hiding anything and i don't even know if its true. Then part of me thinks i have to tell him because it would be more untrustworthy not to. I'm quite sure he'd forgive me which is why i dont know if i should even bother telling him, but i'm not positive he will.. and i just don't know what to do? Also please don't lecture me on what a shitty girlfriend i was back then.. Everyone has to learn there lesson one day and thankfully iv got mine out the way.

Is it normal for a man to hate other men?

I do hate guys sometimes. The problem is, of course, I'm a man myself. How can you blame me? Consider the fact that men account for the vast majority of convicted murderers, rapists, serial killers, etc. I also loathe their treatment of women in particular. Why is it that, since women are (on average) physically weaker, men feel they could dominate them and perhaps even the whole world. Men ought to be wracked with guilt considering how women have been treated like prisoners for centuries. Only in recent decades have the majority of women worked outside the home and for wages. I want to like men, but I just think they come off as selfish, exploitative and untrustworthy pigs or bullies a lot of times. Much like all those testosterone-riddle misfits in high school. Also, because of men, there seems to be too much violence, atrocities and pornography. Like some others, I think a lot of men are downright ugly to look at. I wonder what women see in men sometimes. When men aren't scrawny or gangly, they have such ridiculous pot bellies. Furthermore, beefcakes like Arnold Schwarzenegger are just plain nasty or repulsive in my opinion. I was never a huge fan of beards or facial hair. Ultimately, there are far too many negative portrayals of men on television. Movies like Straw Dogs, Mad Max and The Accused depict them as scum-sucking low-lifes. I often wonder if the world would be a much better place without them. What do you all say?

39 weeks pregnant and in lots of pain?

I'm 19 prego with my second :) me and my husband had this same thing! ally contrations where on my back you need to call in I think it in labor

Gf isnt putting out, she gets angry if i watch adult films ?/?

hi thanks for taking time 2 read my question, i am having some issues with my lady friend. at those times she isnt willing to participate in the act of coitus with me, i get in the car and rub one out (the car is mine), so i do watch some some adult film while im at it 2 get off, she somehow got a hunch and literally did some wise-tech stuff to my ipod and was able to monitor it ??? anyways she feels sad and she says she feels betrayed yet she wouldnt have sex with me ?? am i not entitled to sexual relief ?? she says she feels "betrayed by this" and she kinda seems sad ?? what should i do i dont even what i did wrong

I lost my faith in finding someone to love?

I just broke up with a guy that I had been dating only a short while, almost 3 months. We never could get on the same page. When we met in July, I was coming out of a heartbreak of my own doing because I wasted my time and affection on a guy that was untrustworthy. That hurt was bad enough that I decided to be alone because it was easier. We ended up going on our first date to celebrate Valentines Day. We spent most of our weekends hanging out and everything started out going really well. I was really excited about him because he is extremely handsome, funny, and kind-hearted. But, something never felt right about us. I started off thinking that it was me. this is because I went through a lot of stress immediately after we started dating. The 1st floor of my house had to be gutted due to a plumbing issue and the repairs got so complicated and took so long that I thought I would lose my mind because my home is my sanctuary. He would spend time with me and listen to me and did a really good job of distracting me from my troubles. After my home was finally repaired, he told me that he was very afraid that he would lose me. I reassured him that I wouldnt throw him away because of something like that because houses can be fixed. However, other situations would make him uneasy. Whenever I would ask him if he was insecure, he would say that he was only concerned because we werent committed to each other yet. I started getting overwhelmed because I felt rushed and asked him to be patient. About 2 months into our relationship, I stayed overnight at his house and had a little embarrassing mishap while he was running errands. We laughed about it and he commended me for being comfortable enough to be honest about it and glad that I fixed the problem that I created. At this point, I felt like I had a winner. He took me with him when one of his relatives cooked and invited him to come over. Nothing formal, just a laid back day of tv and good soul food. He invited me to come on the family trip for Memorial day and I was excited to go. Also, I invited him to some gatherings with friends, family, and coworkers. He was my date to a wedding and started mentioning that he wanted our ceremony to be beautiful like that. But, little things kept nagging at me - regarding him having insecurities and being controlling. He would see little comments on facebook and I told him not to jump to conclusions. I. One of my friends was angry at one of her family members for taking advantage of her kindness. He sent me a text saying that he wanted to make sure that i wasnt dealing with some guy. I told him that wasnt the case. I told him that I felt we needed to slow down - empasizing that he should not be speaking about wedding ceremonies and plans until he was able to see me for my own character and not compare me to the women who hurt him in the past. My birthday was a few days ago and I had been talking about going to Music Fest for weeks. He said that he was excited, too...if the weather would be nice. Two days before the concert, he suggested that we go to a movie instead. I agreed since the day was very overcast. He knew weeks in advance that I took a vacation day for my birthday. But two days before that, he said that he thought I would be going to work. I invited him to a friends celebration this weekend. He just said that he would rather go to the playoff game Saturday or to a fight party that his friend was hosting. My issue is that he shares my excitement in the beginning and waits until the last minute to say he changed his mind. I told him that I didnt think dating would work out until we focus on building a stronger friendship because we clearly didnt understand each other. He started cussing and said that I obviously wasnt used to a good man and that Im just like all those other women. I told him, not to speak to me that way...It took me almost an hour to calm him down. He sent me a message saying that he wants to speak face to face because he really wanted us to be in a relationship. I felt that we discussed everything that needs to be said at this point.

What does Vlad do in Seussical?

Last night I found out that I was going to be Vlad. I was told that I have 1 line and I was just wondering what that 1 line is! If anyone knows... Something about black birds? Idk. Another question.. Does vlad sing? I mean I don't have a problem with it or the part (because I'm also a hunch and a cadet) I'm just curious about what I get to do. :D